So smart is sexy - but what is it that we're reading that makes us attractive? Our survey revealed what men and women really desire on a potential partner's bookshelf.
1. Men like women who embrace their naughty side with a bit of erotica
Putting the lover back in book lover, the survey revealed that men’s heads are most easily turned by women who read erotica. In fact, for more than one in five of the men surveyed, female erotica readers are as sexy as it gets.
Indeed, when asked ''What is the most attractive genre a potential partner can read?'' 21% of men picked erotic fiction as the ultimate turn-on, putting it far ahead of the next most popular genres – thrillers, at 12 per cent and biographies, at 11 per cent. In other words, if you’re a woman wanting to meet a man on your next commute it might be time to put down the paper and pick up 50 Shades of Grey.
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2. Women like mysterious men
The way to a woman's heart lies behind a veil of mystery. 19 per cent of women picked thrillers as the sexiest genre a man can read. So any men palming through one of Benjamin Black's crime fiction novels (real name John Banville, he uses Black as a pseudonym - it just adds to his mystery!) have probably caught the attention of nearby ladies. The survey showed that second most popular form of literature was non-fiction, viewed as attractive by 17% of women, with biographies close behind, favoured by 16%. However erotic literature did not score highly with women, with just 6 per cent admitting that they find men who read it attractive.
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3. The law of attraction
Although genre can play a part in attraction, ultimately reading in general is enticing! The law of attraction indicates like is attracted to like. And as 87% of Irish singles stated that they enjoyed reading for pleasure and only 1% consider reading to be boring, evidently the Irish do think smart is sexy!
According to EliteSingles psychologist Salama Marine, there are a variety of reasons why singles love those who love books but, chiefly, it’s because ‘’people look for those who have interesting hobbies – and reading is one of them. Why? Because a great book leads to great discussions.’’ She adds ‘’also, your taste in books can highlight aspects of your personality: are you curious, romantic, dreamy? By sharing your tastes you can show and share your inner world.’’4
Salama says that this popularity shows that ‘’reading is an easy passion to share with [your] partner’’ – which makes it the kind of common ground that cements a great relationship!
In conclusion, if you want to get in someone's good books, pick up a good book. Why? Because reading is – officially – sexy.
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EliteSingles editorial August 2015
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